6 Kinds Of Compliments Men Would Love To Hear More Often
1. Compliments that show that you believe in him
One
of the biggest things that makes a guy melt is when his partner
supports him and believes in him. This is one of the most consistent
things that I heard from my male readers when I went to them regarding
writing this article.
One of my clients said, “When she says any variation of ‘I believe in you’ I feel like a superhero who can achieve anything”.
Examples:
– I believe in you.
– I love how driven you are.
– Whatever you put your mind to, I know you’ll be able to achieve it. You always have.
–
Of course people want to work with you/for you… people trust you and
your abilities. As they should. You’re amazing at what you do.
– Of course you got a raise/that new job. You’re talented, hard working, and everyone knows it. I’m so proud of you.
–
You’ve accomplished so much in your life already. I’m sure you’ll
continue to go on to do many more great things. You’ll make the most of
any situation that comes your way.
2. Body and appearance-specific compliments
While
men might not get as much body shaming marketing as the average woman
does in western society, guys are still insecure about certain elements
of their physical appearance. Besides, every person (regardless of
gender) likes knowing that their partner finds them aesthetically
pleasing. Whether it’s his arms, hands, eyes, thighs, or private parts
that are on the receiving end of the compliment, guys aren’t too picky.
Here are some examples of compliments that my male readers said touched their heart:
– You look so handsome.
– Wow… you weren’t kidding when you said you had been working out. Look at you!
– You look extra manly today. I like it.
– You look so handsome in that suit/tie/outfit!
– I love being wrapped up in your sexy arms.
– You look beautiful when you laugh.
– You look beautiful when you cry.
– You always look so handsome… even when you’ve just woken up and your hair is all messy.
3. Compliments that acknowledge his efforts
Everyone likes to be recognized for the effort that they put into their relationship.
Show
him that you appreciate what he does for you. Even the simplest things.
Notice and recognize it all. Whenever you appreciate something out
loud, you tend to get more of it. And even if you don’t, you still get
to make him feel loved.
Whether he took out the
garbage, replaced the light bulb, or did the dishes is irrelevant… what
matters is that you recognize him for his acts of service every now and
then.
Examples…
– You’re so good to me.
– Thank you so much for cooking for me, love. I really appreciate it. And this is delicious!
– You can fix anything, can’t you?
– I love how gentle you are with me.
– Thank you for listening to me. I really appreciate you letting me vent.
–
I noticed that you did (this) for me. Thank you for being so
thoughtful. I really appreciate it. You’re very sweet with me and I love
it.
– I loved seeing you playing with (mutual
friend’s) kids earlier today. Your playful side is so sexy. I love that
you can cut loose and have fun sometimes.
4. Compliments that show that you respect him
Several
studies have shown that men feel respect as love and they put a higher
emotional premium on feeling respected than necessarily feeling loved.
While I don’t think that these studies necessarily mean much on the
individual level, it’s important to note that your man likely wants to
feel respected within your relationship.
Here are some ways to say it to him:
– You’re a good man.
– I’m proud of you.
– I have so much respect for you.
– You become a better version of yourself every time I see you.
–
It took a lot of courage to admit you were wrong/apologize/have that
tough conversation back there… I really admire that you were able to do
that. It was very attractive.
– I love how
forgiving you are with those closest to you. It took a lot of strength
to be the bigger man back there and you couldn’t have done any better.
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