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5 Reasons Guys Get Back To Their Exes

 

Much like herpes, exes always come back.  

1. He had you as a backup plan, and the new girl dumped him. 

This reason is most common with cheaters as well as guys who ghost early on in the relationship. The most common reasons he’ll give for dumping you when he apologizes include “I was going through something” and “I didn’t know what I had.” He may also say he misses you. Don’t fall for it. 

2. He wants to control you. 

A scary amount of guys get off on the idea of having a girl wrapped around their little finger, and if he comes back to you once you’re finally over him, it could be because he realized that he no longer has a hold on you. 

3. He doesn’t want to start over and he realized it a bit too late. 

Dating is exhausting for most people, including men. Sadly, most guys out there have a “grass is greener” mentality until one fateful breakup... and then they want that girl back because they realized how much work is put into getting another girlfriend. Unfortunately, this kind of thinking is never good for long-term relationships, so it’s best you keep walking.

4. You got hotter.  

Did you lose 75 pounds after the breakup? As shallow as it is, guys will often try to get back together with an ex if that ex ends up looking super-hot later on. There’s a reason why Khloe Kardashian’s Revenge Body show has some truth to it, after all. However, that interest guys have to get to know “the new you” is never genuine. If it was, then the packaging wouldn’t have mattered.

5. He misses the perks of being in a relationship you.

Whether men want to admit it or not, being in a relationship does have perks. If he’s been single for a hot minute, then he may want to try to hit up exes in hopes he can get coupled up again, because he knows which girls treated him well. Though others may disagree with me, I believe that any guy worth a damn will know what he has when he has it and won’t require a breakup to realize he wants you. 

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