How to get someone

We've all been in a position where we totally have the biggest crush on someone, but you don't think they like you back. Find out in this article how to get that special someone to fall head over heels in love with you.

First find out if the person you like is single or not.

• If they are not single, and are currently in a relationship, it's almost always not the best idea to pursue this person, unless you are certain they are unhappy in their relationship. Otherwise, it's best to just either move on, or wait it out until they split up.

If they have never spoken to you before, it's best to introduce yourself first! If you have spoken before, move on to the next step.

• It's important that the person you are crushing on is introduced to you, before you start to get any idea of a romantic connection.

Get to know the person just a little better before you get too worked up about them - you never know, you might dislike them once you know them better!

• A strong relationship has to be built on a foundation of trust, knowledge and affection you have built for them over the time you have got to know them. Far too many teenagers nowadays jump into relationships that last a week because they barely know their boyfriend/girlfriend. If you want this to work, it's worth spending a little bit of time getting to know this person.

Show an interest in this person.

• When you are around this person, give them all of your attention, don't text but say you are listening, don't file your nails but say you find them interesting, it will send mixed messages and any romantic relationship may not be possible if they think you aren't interested in what they have to say.

Do you want to get to know more about those tips to get your 'it' girl or boy? Find out more here.